30-Day Self-Love Challenge

Shivam Shammi
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Nowadays, before you begin to love your partner. It is essential to love yourself first. Without self-love, you cannot love them. Many people forget to prioritize themselves. Never take care of themselves. Therefore, I gave you a 30-day self-love challenge so that you begin to love yourself, prioritize yourself before any other thing.

Day 1: Write down 10 things you love about yourself

On Day 1 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Please write the top 10 things that you love about yourself, whether it’s your habit, emotional intelligence, or dressing sense, etc.

Day 2: Treat yourself to your favorite meal

On Day 2 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Go to a restaurant or a café and order your favorite meal, whether it’s pizza, pasta, or something else. Also, click the picture of that meal. Make yourself feel special.

Day 3: Unplug from social media for the day

When you unplug from social media for a day. You didn’t compare your lifestyle to other influencers or creators. You also didn’t watch other people’s lives digitally. You will spend your whole time with yourself only. Make yourself a top priority.

Day 4: Write a letter of forgiveness to yourself

On Day 4 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Remember all past mistakes you have made, whether it’s personal mistakes or when you’re in a relationship. Write a forgiveness letter to yourself.

Day 5: Go for a walk and reflect on what makes you feel alive

On Day 5 of a 30-day self-love challenge.

Day 6: Say “no” to something that drains your energy

On Day 6 of a 30-day self-love challenge. You have to say “no” to those people and situations that drain your energy throughout the day. 

Day 7: Spend time doing something creative

On Day 7 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Spend your time doing something innovative, such as learning a new language or creating something with your own hands.

Day 8: Compliment yourself in the mirror

On Day 8 of a 30-day self-love challenge.  Compliment yourself in the mirror, such as You look great, handsome, beautiful, etc. When you give compliments to yourself, you feel good and lovable in your own eyes.

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Day 9: Declutter one space in your home

On Day 9 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Remove or vacate space or things that you feel are not necessary for your life. Decluttering will make your life manageable and easier in every aspect.

Day 10: Practice 10 minutes of mindful breathing

On Day 10 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Practice mindful breathing. In this, you have to focus on your breathing while your eyes are closed. When you do this, you’re in the present moment fully.

Day 11: Make a playlist of songs that uplift you

On Day 11 of a 30-day self-love challenge.

Day 12: Do something kind for someone else

On Day 12 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Go outside. Help someone who needs it—bring food for someone who cannot afford it. You also feel happy when they are smiling. 

Day 13: List 5 boundaries you want to set and why

On Day 13 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Take a pen and paper. Write the top 5 boundaries you want to set on people, and also write the reason behind them. 

Day 14: Journal about a moment you felt proud of yourself

On Day 14 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Write a moment when you feel proud of yourself in your journal before going to bed, whether it was buying your favourite thing with your money or getting good grades.

Day 15: Watch your favorite movie or show

On Day 15 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Watch your favourite movie or a web series while eating your favourite snacks alone at home. Spend some quality time with yourself. Embrace this time and make this moment unforgettable.

Day 16: Try something new that excites or challenges you

On Day 16 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Try something new that thrills you. For example – A new sport, Trekking, Physical Activity, Horse Riding, etc. 

Day 17: Meditate on a positive affirmation

On Day 17 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Sit in an empty, silent room and do meditation for at least 30 minutes. Focus on your breathing. You can also meditate on positive affirmations.

Day 18: Take yourself on a solo date

On Day 18 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Go on a date with yourself. Eat your favourite food on a solo date.

Day 19: Write about a tough experience you overcame

On Day 19 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Write about a hard experience in the past that you know and how you overcame it. List all the lessons you learned during that moment. Be proud of yourself.

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Day 20: Pamper yourself

On Day 20 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Pamper yourself by giving special skin care, hair spa, body massage, etc. 

Day 21: Dance like nobody’s watching

On Day 21 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Celebrate your day with crazy dancing alone in your room.  Dance like nobody’s watching you. 

Day 22: Revisit a childhood hobby

On Day 22 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Thinking of a childhood hobby you did when you were a child, such as art and craft, painting, collecting coins, etc.

Day 23: List 5 people who bring joy to your life

On Day 23 of a 30-day self-love challenge. List 5 people in your family, as well as your friends, who bring happiness into your life. Spend time with them. Make them feel special.

Day 24: Say “I love you” to yourself aloud

On Day 24 of a 30-day self-love challenge

Day 25: Identify and celebrate a recent win

On Day 25 of a 30-day self-love challenge. Think of a recent moment where you achieved first place at something, whether it’s a competition or an exam. Appreciating yourself for that win.

Day 26: Spend time in nature

On Day 26 of the self-love challenge. Go outside and spend your time in nature mindfully. Feel the natural power around you. If possible, plan a one-day trip to the mountains.

Day 27: Read something that inspires you

On Day 27 of the self-love challenge. Read a self-help book that inspires you. Implement their lessons in your life and see the changes.

Day 28: Visualize your best self

On Day 28 of the self-love challenge. Visualize your best version of yourself and journal about it.

Day 29: Let go of one toxic thought or belief

On Day 29 of the self-love challenge. Let go of the toxic thought that is not beneficial for you in your life.

Day 30: Reflect on the journey and write a love letter to yourself

On the Last day of this challenge. Reflect on all the journeys in your life with your family, friends, and inside you. Write a love letter to yourself.

Take this self-love challenge for 30 days and make yourself a priority over others in your life. Be kind to yourself during this journey.

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Hi, I’m Shivam. Just a man who feels deeply, questions often, and writes what he learns along the way. HeFreaksHeSpeaks was born from my own moments of confusion, healing, and reflection. By profession, I work in the world of technology. But by passion, I live for inner work—the kind that brings you closer to your truth. If my words resonate with even one soul, this journey is worth it.
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